Monday, 10 August 2015

Repeat after me: "I can do this!"

During 'Fuck Fest Friday" - the aptly named worst workout of the week at my box- I found myself doing what I routinely do during a WOD - talking myself out of and then back into and then out of completing the workout. Somewhere along the way, during the box jumps, I started to gag. I looked up to my coach who, in good coach style, laughed at me. It was exactly what I needed to keep pushing through - a reminder that I wasn't dying. Who laughs at a dying person?

I competed in the crossfit games a few months ago and while I'm far from the best, it spurred an ambition inside me that I hadn't had before. I wanted to get competitive. To be one of the best. How that would fit in with my new teaching career and life in general I didn't really know but ambitions rarely - and for good reason - start from a place of knowing.

To start with, I worked with crossfitting buddies to complete a month of "no sugar" - we posted every meal we ate and steered away from naughty treats, bar one yummy cheat meal a week. I felt like it was really working for me and was starting to see a difference in my body. The problem occurred when I weighed in at the end of the month - no change. Were the differences I saw imaginary? With that I started to question my nutritional knowledge: should I be aiming to lose weight? To eat fewer carbs/more? To count macros? To eat more calories or less? To live a 'count - free' life?!

Work stress burst in and I started getting to the box fewer times and this, I think, is where I went wrong. Not because I didn't make it the gym. Let's face it, everyone's gets stressed sometimes, skips the gym a few nights and chooses the scrummy chinese, pjs and bad tv alternative - it happens. The problem started when this meant that I lost my confidence in my workouts and forgot my progress to date. I started to spend more time comparing myself to others in the box, their performance and progress. I was (and I really can't speak from a point of renewed enlightenment - I continue to) compare myself to the elite of my box. It's at this point that everything starts to feel a bit pointless - I'm never going to be quick enough - strong enough- or be able to commit (long term) the same volume of time to my box as they are. The 3-5 workouts a week I do started to feel insufficient and a poor attempt at living a healthy, strong life. 

I'm not saying that I've figured it out but I know an intevention is needed. It's not realistic or useful to compare myself to other people in the box. I need to focus on my PB's (personal bests), my performance, my progress...

So, here it is, my SMARTer targets for September (starting before but continuing through)

Make every effort to go to the box 5-6x a week
At the weekends, use open gym to focus on my weaknesses, namely:

Strength: Deadlifts
Gymnastic: Handstand push ups

And lastly, in WODs, push hard, go 'blue' and remember you're not going to die...Gagging equals gains, right?!









Thursday, 19 February 2015

Grit, Growth and Cojones

Growing up, it was always clear to me that “being smart” was not about coming from a certain family background, a specific side of town or even being “born with brains.” I couldn't tell you specifically what it is that my parents said to me that made that knowledge so clear. If I’m being honest with myself, I'm not entirely sure that it was something they said. There was no ubiquitous slogan or pop psychology quote that stylised my upbringing. Actually, “being smart” was always a multi-faceted concept in our household. My mum has Dyslexia and has always struggled terribly with writing, spelling and reading. Deciphering her shopping lists was always (and continues to be) a cryptic and worthwhile challenge: “ballonas saws,” “sawsajis” and “bride”, otherwise known as Bolognese, sausages and bread are but a few of my favourites. My brother has ADHD and has always found mainstream schooling difficult. Few of my family members have attended sixth form or university (I was the first on my mum’s side to do either) and ‘intelligence’ is not as a result something I judge by a person’s qualifications on paper.

Ultimately, my parents put their emphasis on “trying” rather than “achieving” and it soon became clear that the “being there” was never quite as important as the “getting there” part. It was all about being, what Duckworth dubbed, a “gritty learner:” a learner who was resilient and determined. For me, this meant that growing up, I had one talent. Could I write? No. Was I great at sport? No. Could I draw or problem solve? No. My talent was determination. I could write, do sport, draw and problem solve because with determination I knew I could become proficient in any arena I wanted. I’m not saying that I am gritty in every aspect of my life and I think a growth mindset is more multi-dimensional then simply having one, or not. That is to say that you could have a growth mindset in English but not in Maths, and in the Gym but not in the Workplace. But certainly, my mindset, wherever it is on the spectrum of fixed to growth and however this changes in the different arenas of my life, has left me in a position where I regularly question my actions: “Could this have been done better? How? What are you going to do next time?” It has made me reflective.

And so, I’m left questioning how can I promote a growth mindset in my students when realistically, I know that I am not a “perfect model” of this thinking (not that ‘perfection’ is at all what a growth mindset is about), when I cannot pinpoint the exact origin of my “reflectiveness” and where I know, to a large extent, this was something fostered by my parents and not my schooling? If anything, school provided a platform on which to extend my “reflectiveness” not a host for its formation. Realistically, there is no clear answer.

This is where “cojones” come in. I know you were all wondering how this Spanish vernacular found its way into my educational musings.  The cojones of my post title refers to my Lenten challenges.
In trying to foster “grittier” learners I will (for the duration of lent):
  1. Ring home. 3 students. Every week. Not to praise success but to praise effort in my lessons. A small step for man…and so on…
In trying to foster a greater “growth mindset” in myself I will (for the duration of lent):
  1. Not complain about work. Find something good to say about my day. Every day. Even the bad ones.
And finally, in trying to become a more competent and confident crossfitter, I will (for the duration of lent):
  1. Use open gym sessions at the weekends to practise kipping.
Let’s face it: it takes courage to embrace challenge, to be open to criticism and to be “gritty” in the face of failure. It takes cojones (the metaphoric kind!) to be a good learner!

(This TEDTalk is my inspiration for this post and well worth the watch:)




Saturday, 7 February 2015

Learning to Lift, Lifting to Learn?

I do Crossfit. Three times a week, I walk into the "box" (a crossfitter's playground) and look at the whiteboard in utter despair: "He wants me to do what?!" 

It was only the other day, that I thought of my box as the classroom in which I am the student and not the teacher.

I walk in; look at the whiteboard and my body sags as I read the WOD for that day. Negativity sweeps into my mind and uncertainty makes me question my ability to a) not look like a physically incompetent idiot and b) actually complete the task!

Or at least, this used to be the case because after a few sessions it became clear that my body was more capable then I realized, that trying and failing to RX an entire WOD was more powerful and fulfilling then not, that the community would cheer you on and praise your efforts regardless, that my progress was my own and that, shouting out in pain was sometimes OK. So, three times a week I walk into the box, look at the whiteboard and think “Today, I am going to be awesome, this WOD will test me and I will BEAST it.” It is not easy and it is something I must remind myself of throughout the workout.

After a session this week in which I was KIA (unable to complete a workout within the time cap), I was left feeling sore and disappointed. My coach told me “Be mad, get even, revenge is in order!” It was with these words ringing through my head that I fell back into teacher-mode and began to consider: how can I replicate this sense of challenge and achievement in my classroom, this determination in my students to BEAST a lesson?

I want my students to understand that learning is difficult, it hurts and at the end of a session you may just want to fall on the floor with exhaustion (as I often do after a killer WOD). BUT…that trying hard in my lesson is more powerful and fulfilling (for my students) then not, that the classroom and their peers provide a safe and supportive environment in which to fail and succeed, that progress isn’t just a word and concept that teachers own, but something the students take charge of and that yes, shouting out in pain is sometimes OK.

Simply put, I want my lessons to provide challenge and I want them to offer opportunities to succeed. But mostly, I want to present opportunities to fail because it is only through such opportunities that we learn. I want my students to walk away from my lessons surprised at what they are capable of when they do well, keen to get revenge (to “own the topic” – not to genuinely harbour bad feeling) if they don’t and ready to BEAST the next one…